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| 07-03 Issue |
May 2007 |
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BEAKS & TAILS: -Kathryn Krehbiel, known as the "Coke lady",
has for years bought soft drinks for the KU basketball band.
At a recent home game, she was recognized at mid-court for
her endowment of two scholarships for members of the basketball
band.
FAREWELL TO A TRUE KU BASKETBALL FAN
They really
hooped it up at Don's service as well. Final Four hats were
positioned up and down a small ladder. Pictures of the 23 Final
Fours Don and Mary had attended shared space with a big bouquet
decorated with mini basketballs, stickers and jerseys. "It was like
a Final Four-themed service for him,'' said 18-year-old Caley. "That
just kinda explains to you about my grandfather.'' Donald Oliver
loved basketball. No, he really loved basketball. As a boy growing
up in Miller, Kan., he played all the time. His passion translated
throughout the family. Caley's mom played in high school, then
coached at Allen County Community College in Iola. Kaley plays for
Flinthills High School in Rosalia, and plays to continue in college.
"It's always been my grandfather's influence on all of us,'' Kaley
said. "We're all basketball-minded here.'' Don would attend Kaley's
Monday night game, then Kaley's brother's game on Tuesday night. The
area's college teams, Emporia State and Washburn University, weren't
ignored either. Nor was the state's powerhouse, the University of
Kansas. Don wouldn't drive to those games in Lawrence. Too far.
Instead, he'd fly, wearing the KU cap with the giant Jayhawk perched
on top. "He had a passion for the game that I couldn't even
describe,'' said Kaley.
Don and Mary had
attended all those consecutive Final Fours when a nasty cough set in
early last year. A trip to the hospital revealed the worst possible
news. Don had lung cancer. Of course, he felt terrible. He must
have. For the first time in 23 years, Don and Mary skipped last
year's Final Four. "That was probably the hardest thing for him, out
of all that time,'' said Kaley. "It was really an emotional time for
the family.'' Don seemed to be holding his own. Then, last August 1,
Don and Mary were preparing to attend -- what else? -- a game. Mary
walked out to the car and saw Don on the ground. An ambulance was
summoned, but it was too late. Seventy-year-old Don Oliver was dead
from a blood clot to the heart.
Ever since that
awful day, it's been tough for Kaley. Especially when she plays
basketball and doesn't see that loving face in the stands. "He was
always my guy,'' she said. "I could have the worst game ever and
he'd still be the one who'd be like, 'Well, you know what? I think
you still played great.' '' But Kaley didn't call the Herald-Tribune
simply to tell us about her grandfather. She wanted to say how much
Donald admired and respected our own Dick Vitale. The two met
several times during Don and Mary's Final Four trips. Nothing big,
just a few words exchanged between the voice of college basketball
and perhaps Dickie V's biggest fan. "My grandpa really respected Mr.
Vitale, his knowledge of basketball, his involvement, his dedication
to the NCAA program,'' Kaley said. "Everybody in our community
looked up to my grandpa. He looked up to Dick Vitale. I think those
two would have been great friends. They could have sat for hours
talking basketball.'' During one Final Four, Don got to shake
Vitale's hand. "He was shaking,'' said Caley. "He came up to me and
said, 'Caley, guess what? I shook Dick Vitale's hand. I haven't
washed it in a week."I kinda got this thing where I was like, 'You
know, I wish Mr. Vitale could know how much he meant to my grandpa.'
I just really wish I could express that to him and let him know.''
In this instance, we didn't think Dick would mind that we gave Caley
his cell number. But the connection was bad, Dick was busy, and
Caley never got the chance to fully tell her story. Maybe, we said,
you could try again at the Final Four in Atlanta. Last year, before
he died, Don got a third ticket. For Caley. "This has always been my
dream,'' she said. "I'm just so excited to go.'' Kaley's even
missing two of her track meets to attend. If she's lucky, she'll get
to tell Dickie V all about it. That, and a grandpa named Don.
--Doug Fernandes Sarasota Herald-Tribune |
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